Isang Katulad mo by The Essence

I would like to dedicate this song to a very special someone. Hope he knows who he was hehehe kumokorni na ko ah! in love na ba ko? niyehehe!

Pag kapiling ka
Ang nadarama
Ay walang hanggan
Na ligaya

Sa mga mata
Ay makikita
Na may
Bukas pa at pag asa

Pag hawak mo na
Ang aking kamay
Ang paligid ko
Ay tunay na makulay

(CHORUS)
Binuhay mo ang
Nabigo kong puso
Sa mga pangako
Agad naniwala
Sa mga titig mo
Ay nakita ko
Pag-asa na may darating
Na isang katulad mo.

Na wagas at tapat
Kailanman di na magbabago

Magbabalik ka pa ba by Nikki Gil

I kinda relate to this one. My song of the day 🙂

Nanananana… wooo…

Kung akala mo, ako’y nakikipaglaro sa’yo
Ito’y hindi na totoo
Buong akala mo, ako’y natutuwa sa mga kinikilos mo
Minsan ako’y gulong-gulo

Refrain:
Sa kabilang dako, nag-iisip ako
Kung ano ang gagawin, kung ano ang sasabihin ko
Nagtitiis na lang sa kauupo na naghihintay sa’yo

Chorus:
Magbalik ka pa ba? Magbabalik ka pa ba?
Kung hindi na nga ay sabihin mo
Ang puso ko’y ‘di na kikibo
Magbabalik ka pa ba? Magbabalik ka pa ba?
Ang nais kong malaman mo
Ako’y di maghihintay sa’yo…

Nanananana… wooo…

Kung sa wari ko, baka nga di tayong dal’wa
Ang para sa isa’t isa
Ang nadarama ko, wala na nga’ng pag-ibig ko…
Na ibinigay sa’yo

Refrain:
Nag-isip ako
Kung ano ang gagawin, kung ano ang sasabihin ko
Nagtitiis na lang sa kauupo na naghihintay sa’yo

Repeat Chorus

Bridge:
Bahala ka na… hindi na ako magtataka
Ayoko nang nag-iisa…
Mabuti na ito, matitiis ko ang lahat
Basta’t malaman ko… kung

Repeat Chorus

Wa’g na lang kaya… wa’g na lang kaya
Wa’g na lang kaya… wa’g na lang kaya

Example of Effort for Love

hehe! Im a bit inspired today… My cousin texted me this morning about this quote that made me smile might as well share it ^_^

EXAMPLE OF TRUE LOVE:

yun yung hindi ka marunong magcommute at tumawid..

pero nagagawa mu,

dahil magkikita kayo!

haha! Labet!

LIONEL RICHIE – THE ONLY ONE

I dont know… when I heard this song… I remember someone… someone na iniwan ko na… haiz… rar! hehe!

Let me tell you now
All that’s on my mind
For a love like yours
Is oh, so very hard to find
I’ve looked inside myself
Now I’m very sure
There can only be you for me
I need you more and more …

CHORUS:
You turned me inside out and you showed me
What life was about
Only you, the only one that stole my heart away
I wanna do all I can, just to show you
Make you understand
Only you, the only one that stole my heart away

When you’re in my arms
When I’m close to you
There’s a magic in your touch
That just comes shining through
Want you everyday
Want you every night
There can only be you for me
You make it seem so right
Oh, girl, ’cause …

CHORUS:
You turned me inside out and you showed me
What life was about
Only you, the only one that stole my heart away

(Instrumental)
Ohhh
Oooohhhh….

In my mind, there’s no other love
You’re the only girl my heart and soul is thinking of
Only you, only me
There can never ever be another
That understands the way that I feel inside, ’cause …

CHORUS:
You turned me inside out and you showed me
What life was about
Only you, the only one that stole my heart away
Yeah, you turned me inside out and you showed me
What life was about
Only you, the only one that stole my heart away

(You stole my heart away)
You stole it, (you stole my heart away)
Only you, the only one that stole my heart away
Yeah you, (you stole my heart away)
Oh you stole it, (you stole my heart away)
Only you, the only one that stole my heart away
(You stole my heart away)
(Begin Fade)
Stole it, (you stole my heart away)
Only you Baby, the only one that stole my heart away …

21 Utos ni Bob Ong

I love Bob Ong quotes… I have read this on a site when I was searching for motivational quotes. Kailangan ko kasi ngayon eh… back to step 1 na naman kasi ako sa pag move on… actually nga, the right term is “getting over”… mahirap mag stay sa relationship pag alam mong walang patutunguhan… bibilugin at bibilugin ka lang nung tao na yun dahil alam niya na mahal mo siya… taena nagmahal lang ako noh at hindi ako tanga… may mga nakita lang ako na kahanga hanga talaga sa kanya DATI… ngayon he making me realize that those characteristics are not existed anymore…. umasa ako na ngayon lang yun kasi masyado lang umaakyat yung success sa utak niya… He can buy whatever he wants, do whatever he wants (kahit nasasaktan na ko)… nasanay lang siguro na lagi siya… the relationship focuses on his happiness lang not the both of us… I know I have fault too… pero I really did my best… I did truly love him… gusto ko lang po mahalin ng totoo hindi paglaruan… I’m not the type…  kahit sino naman matatauhan din… yun lang ang tagal bago ako nagising… ok lang… at least nagising parin… We all learn from this… sana in time maging man naman siya… mag mature naman siya sa next niyang relationship… I guess were not meant for each other…. sad but true…

Bob Ongor Roberto Ong is the pseudonym of a Filipino contemporary author known for using conversational Filipino to create humorous and reflective depictions of life as a Filipino.
1. “Kung hindi mo mahal ang isang tao, wag ka nang magpakita ng motibo para mahalin ka niya.”

2. “Huwag mong bitawan ang bagay na hindi mo kayang makitang hawak ng iba.”

3. “Huwag mong hawakan kung alam mong bibitawan mo lang.”

4. “Huwag na huwag kang hahawak kapag alam mong may hawak ka na.”

5. “Parang elevator lang yan eh, bakit mo pagsisiksikan ung sarili mo kung walang pwesto para sayo. Eh meron naman hagdan, ayaw mo lang pansinin.”

6. “Kung maghihintay ka nang lalandi sayo, walang mangyayari sa buhay mo.. Dapat lumandi ka din.”

7. “Pag may mahal ka at ayaw sayo, hayaan mo.. malay mo sa mga susunod na araw ayaw mo na din sa kanya, naunahan ka lang..”

8. “Hiwalayan na kung di ka na masaya. Walang gamot sa tanga kundi pagkukusa.”

9. “Pag hindi ka mahal ng mahal mo wag ka magreklamo. Kasi may mga tao rin na hindi mo mahal pero mahal ka.. Kaya quits lang.”

10. “Kung dalawa ang mahal mo, piliin mo ung pangalawa. Kasi hindi ka naman magmamahal ng iba kung mahal mo talaga ung una.”

11. “Hindi porke’t madalas mong ka-chat, kausap sa telepono, kasama sa mga lakad o ka-text ng wantusawa eh may gusto sayo at magkakatuluyan kayo. Meron lang talagang mga taong sadyang friendly, sweet, flirt, malandi, pa-fall o paasa.”

12. “Huwag magmadali sa babae o lalaki. Tatlo, lima, sampung taon, mag-iiba ang pamantayan mo at maiisip mong hindi pala tamang pumili ng kapareha dahil lang maganda o nakakalibog ito. Totoong mas mahalaga ang kalooban ng tao higit sa anuman. Sa paglipas ng panahon, maging ang mga crush ng bayan nagmumukha ding pandesal, maniwala ka.”

13. “Minsan kahit ikaw ang nakaschedule, kailangan mo pa rin maghintay, kasi hindi ikaw ang priority.”

14. “Mahirap pumapel sa buhay ng tao. Lalo na kung hindi ikaw ung bida sa script na pinili niya.”

15. “Alam mo ba kung gaano kalayo ang pagitan ng dalawang tao pag nagtalikuran na sila? Kailangan mong libutin ang buong mundo para lang makaharap ulit ang taong tinalikuran mo.”

16. “Mas mabuting mabigo sa paggawa ng isang bagay kesa magtagumpay sa paggawa ng wala.”

17. “Hindi lahat ng kaya mong intindihin ay katotohanan, at hindi lahat ng hindi mo kayang intindihin ay kasinungalingan. ”

18. “Kung nagmahal ka ng taong di dapat at nasaktan ka, huwag mong sisihin ang puso mo. Tumitibok lang yan para mag-supply ng dugo sa katawan mo. Ngayon, kung magaling ka sa anatomy at ang sisisihin mo naman ay ang hypothalamus mo na kumokontrol ng emotions mo, mali ka pa rin! Bakit? Utang na loob! Wag mong isisi sa body organs mo ang mga sama ng loob mo sa buhay! Tandaan mo: magiging masaya ka lang kung matututo kang tanggapin na hindi ang puso, utak, atay o bituka mo ang may kasalanan sa lahat ng nangyari sayo, kundi IKAW mismo!”

19. “Pakawalan mo ung mga bagay na nakakasakit sayo kahit na pinasasaya ka nito. Wag mong hintayin ang araw na sakit na lang ang nararamdaman mo at iniwan ka na ng kasiyahan mo.”

20. “Gamitin ang puso para alagaan ang mga taong malalapit sayo. Gamitin ang utak para alagaan ang sarili mo.”

21. “Ang pag-ibig parang imburnal…nakakata kot mahulog…at kapag nahulog ka, it’s either by accident or talagang tanga ka.

Nalaman kong hindi final exam ang passing rate ng buhay. Hindi ito multiple choice, identification, true or false, enumeration or fill-in-the- blanks na sinasagutan kundi essay na isinusulat araw-araw. Huhusgahan ito hindi base sa kung tama o mali ang sagot, kundi base sa kung may kabuluhan ang mga isinulat o wala. Allowed ang erasures.”

Betrayal of Trust – How to let go and move on when someone you trusted burns you bad.

Sabi ng friend ko sa email niya:

“Naniniwala din kasi ako na TRUST ang foundation ng any relationship. Yung LOVE siya lang yung front ”

Mukhang iaapply ko to dito sa office… hmmm… mahirap talaga basta basta magtiwala kaagad sa tao… di mo alam sa umpisa lang mabait… kala mo tunay na kaibigan yun pala hindi… di mo na nga nakasama sa bad times… mambabadtrip pa pag masaya ka… di na kasi niya ko napapakinabangan so ok lang na ganun isipin niya… grabe nakakatakot dumikit sa mga ganung tao at ang malas ko nakakilala ako ng isa… gosh… Im so sad…

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No matter the type of relationship, be it romantic, friendly, or between parent and child, an essential ingredient is trust. Trust defines every interaction in a relationship, it builds intimacy and it strengthens bonds. Without trust no relationship can thrive. Unfortunately people don’t always cherish trust the way that they should. Because it is often given freely at first it is also easily taken for granted. When trust has been damaged it can spell doom for a relationship and it can be very hard, if not impossible, to earn back.

Whether or not trust can ever be restored depends on how badly it was damaged and how much the spurned person feels betrayed. If you’ve had your trust betrayed then you know how hard it can be to let go, move on and fix the relationship. More often than not the burned person just wants to cut their losses and end the relationship, and who could blame them? But if you do want to repair the damage, if you want to salvage the relationship and rebuild trust, there are some steps you need to follow. While the person who damaged the trust has their work cut out for them in earning it back the person who was hurt also has a job to do. So how do you move past a major burn and put things back on track? It’s hard but it can be done and these three pointers can help.

1. Let your anger out.
   In a quest to save a relationship people who have been hurt often bend over backwards to please their betrayer. Why? Because when we have been betrayed or burned the person who hurts us has sent a clear message that on some level we don’t matter to them as much as they matter to us. In a rebound state of fear of loss this often translates in to the hurt party trying to earn back the other person’s good opinion. It is a knee-jerk reaction and always ends in resentment. The best way to start the healing process is to acknowledge that there has been pain, betrayal and a loss of trust. Once the cards are on the table everybody will have a clearer picture of what they need to do to set things right.
2. Resolve to let it out and then let it go.
   Once you let your feelings out you need to let the incident go. This does not mean blind forgiveness, but there is an element of forgiveness involved in this step. If the person who hurt you apologizes and you accept then you need to never rehash the incident. Doing so will only bring back your anger and keep you in emotional limbo. Don’t bring it up as a weapon. Don’t hold it over the other person every time you feel wronged in the future. Acknowledge that it happened, make your feelings and expectations known, and then stop focusing on what damaged the trust and set your sights on rebuilding. You’re only human, you may slip up and throw the incident in the face of your betrayer and if you do don’t beat yourself up over it, apologize and move on. While this step may seem like letting the person who hurt you get off easy in reality you are making things easier on your self by allowing yourself to be hurt and moving past it.
3. Know that things can never go back to the way they once were and keep your eyes wide open to future betrayals.
   The sad reality is that once trust has been damaged it can’t simply go back to the way it once was, no matter how much both parties may want it to. People who do not value trust enough to respect it in the first place more often than not continue that pattern in the future. This doesn’t mean that it is a waste of time trying to rebuild trust it just means that the new trust has to be different. Call it a more mature trust. While trusting a person who has hurt you isn’t impossible it will never be the same kind of wide-eyed trust we give to people when we first let them in. This is not really a bad thing even though it may seem like a loss. Seeing people for who they really are rather than through rose-colored lenses can be a healthy thing. So when you decide to try to give trust a second chance just know that you will be more sensitive to the prospect of another betrayal and forgive yourself if doubt seeps in without real reason.

Phil Collins – You Can’t Hurry Love

Song for the day hehe! Sana nga dumating na si Mr. Right! sana naman bilis bilisan niya na ah! Excited na ko kiligin ulit!

I need love, love
ooh, ease my mind
And I need to find time
someone to call mine;

My mama said
You can’t hurry love
No, you’ll just have to wait
She said love don’t come easy
But it’s a game of give and take
You can’t hurry love
No, you’ll just have to wait
Just give it good time
No matter how long it takes

How many heartaches must I stand
Before I find the love to let me live again
Right now the only thing that keeps me hanging on
when I feel my strength, ooh, it’s almost gone

I remember mama said
You can’t hurry love
No you’ll just have to wait
She said love don’t come easy
It’s a game of give and take
How long must I wait
How muck more must I take
Before lonliness
Will cause my heart, heart to break?

No, I cant bear to lve my life alone
I grow impatient for a love to call my own
But when I feel that I, I can’t go on
Well these precious words keep me hanging on

I remember mama said
You can’t hurry love
No, you’ll just have to wait
She said love don’t come easy
Well, it’s a game of give and take
You can’t hurry love
No, you’ll just have to wait
Just trust in a good time
No matter how long it takes, now break!

Now love, love don’t come easy
But I keep on waiting
Anticipating for that soft voice
To talk to me at night
For some tender arms
hold me tight
I keep waiting
Ooh, till that day
But it ain’t easy (Love don’t come easy)
No, you know it ain’t easy

My mama said
You can’t hurry love
No, you’ll just have to wait
She said love don’t come easy
It’s a game of give and take

(repeat and fade)

David Pomeranz – The Old Song

Babalik kaya yung gusto kong tao through old songs? hehe minsan nakakamiss din ang mahalin ka ng tunay eh noh. sarap ding maadik eh pero masaklap hindi siya permanent…

Candles burning,
Glasses are chilled
And soon, she’ll be by…

Hope and pray she’ll say that she’s willing
To give us another try…

And if all these plans i made
Don’t melt the lady’s heart,
I’ll put on the old forty-fives…

And maybe the old songs,
Will bring back the old times,
Maybe the old lines will sound new.
Maybe she’ll lay her head on my shoulder,
Maybe old feelings will some through…
Maybe we’ll start to cry,
And wonder why…we ever walked away

Maybe the old songs,
Will bring back the old times
And make her wanna stay…oh–ohhh

It’s been too long without
Seeing her face light up
When I come home.
Been to many hours i’ve waited
Staring at the phone…

Sweet old songs I’m counting on you
Bring her back to me…
I’m tired of listening alone…

Maybe the old songs,
Will bring back the old times,
Maybe the old lines will sound new.
Maybe she’ll lay her head on my shoulder,
Maybe old feelings will some through…
Maybe we’ll start to cry,
And wonder why…we ever walked away

Maybe the old songs,
Will bring back the old times
And make her wanna stay…oh–ohhh

And make her wanna sta—y.

Christopher Cross – Is There Something

I love this song… haiz senti mode haha!

Lately I see clouds of sorrow in your eyes
Some deep sadness you can never quite disguise
Now I’m scared to ask what it’s leading to
But I’m more afraid of not asking you
Is there something that you want to tell me
Is there something that I ought to know
Are we something that’s still worth fighting for
Or should I simply let you go
Is there something I can do to reach you
Are we something more than history
I’ll find some way to convince you to stay
If you just tell me honestly
Is there something left of you and me
You’ve got secrets you’ve been keeping for too long
And I’m going crazy acting like there’s nothing wrong
I can taste the truth every time we kiss
And I can’t go on
At least not like this
I don’t want to lose you
But what’s the use of holding on
I don’t really have you
If the feeling’s gone
Is there something I can do to reach you
Are we something more than history
If there’s no way to convince you to stay
And be the way we used to be
Then there’s something that I want to tell you
And I want you to believe it’s true
We had something that I’ll never forget
Even if I wanted to
‘Cause part of me will always be with you

TLC – I Miss You So Much

This song is for my bf nung 4th yr college… di ko miss yung kung sino siya ngayon… kungdi yung dating siya… haiz… miss ko na naman siya… kathang isip lang siya. yung totoong ugali niya is yung siya ngayon hehe. sa akin lang siya ganun kasi di naman ako deserving sa tamang treatment sa kanya… better let go and be happy na lang ako. at least I have showed him naman how much I love him. I accept him naman kaso nga lang yun gusto ko maging masaya… ayoko maging martir forever… I want to be loved… not to be hated…

I never asked for this feeling
I never thought I would fall
I never knew how I felt
Till the day you were gone
I was lost
I never asked for red roses
I wasn’t looking for love
Somehow I let my emotions take hold
And guess what all at once
I’m in love

[Chorus:]
Oh I miss you so much
I long for your love
It’s scares me
Cause my heart gets so weak
That I can’t even breathe
How can you take things so easily
Baby why aren’t you missing me?

Why did I act like you mattered
It was silly of me to believe
That if I just opened my heart
Things would come naturally
Jokes on me (yeah)
I did not ask for love letters
So why did you give them to me
How could I let your intentions
Get hold over me
So in love
So naive (oh baby)

[Chorus]

And oh how I hate what you have done
Made me fall so deep in love
God knows
You’re the only one I want
That I love oh baby

[Chorus]

Baby why aren’t you missing me?
Baby why aren’t you missing me?