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I love Bob Ong quotes… I have read this on a site when I was searching for motivational quotes. Kailangan ko kasi ngayon eh… back to step 1 na naman kasi ako sa pag move on… actually nga, the right term is “getting over”… mahirap mag stay sa relationship pag alam mong walang patutunguhan… bibilugin at bibilugin ka lang nung tao na yun dahil alam niya na mahal mo siya… taena nagmahal lang ako noh at hindi ako tanga… may mga nakita lang ako na kahanga hanga talaga sa kanya DATI… ngayon he making me realize that those characteristics are not existed anymore…. umasa ako na ngayon lang yun kasi masyado lang umaakyat yung success sa utak niya… He can buy whatever he wants, do whatever he wants (kahit nasasaktan na ko)… nasanay lang siguro na lagi siya… the relationship focuses on his happiness lang not the both of us… I know I have fault too… pero I really did my best… I did truly love him… gusto ko lang po mahalin ng totoo hindi paglaruan… I’m not the type…  kahit sino naman matatauhan din… yun lang ang tagal bago ako nagising… ok lang… at least nagising parin… We all learn from this… sana in time maging man naman siya… mag mature naman siya sa next niyang relationship… I guess were not meant for each other…. sad but true…

Bob Ongor Roberto Ong is the pseudonym of a Filipino contemporary author known for using conversational Filipino to create humorous and reflective depictions of life as a Filipino.
1. “Kung hindi mo mahal ang isang tao, wag ka nang magpakita ng motibo para mahalin ka niya.”

2. “Huwag mong bitawan ang bagay na hindi mo kayang makitang hawak ng iba.”

3. “Huwag mong hawakan kung alam mong bibitawan mo lang.”

4. “Huwag na huwag kang hahawak kapag alam mong may hawak ka na.”

5. “Parang elevator lang yan eh, bakit mo pagsisiksikan ung sarili mo kung walang pwesto para sayo. Eh meron naman hagdan, ayaw mo lang pansinin.”

6. “Kung maghihintay ka nang lalandi sayo, walang mangyayari sa buhay mo.. Dapat lumandi ka din.”

7. “Pag may mahal ka at ayaw sayo, hayaan mo.. malay mo sa mga susunod na araw ayaw mo na din sa kanya, naunahan ka lang..”

8. “Hiwalayan na kung di ka na masaya. Walang gamot sa tanga kundi pagkukusa.”

9. “Pag hindi ka mahal ng mahal mo wag ka magreklamo. Kasi may mga tao rin na hindi mo mahal pero mahal ka.. Kaya quits lang.”

10. “Kung dalawa ang mahal mo, piliin mo ung pangalawa. Kasi hindi ka naman magmamahal ng iba kung mahal mo talaga ung una.”

11. “Hindi porke’t madalas mong ka-chat, kausap sa telepono, kasama sa mga lakad o ka-text ng wantusawa eh may gusto sayo at magkakatuluyan kayo. Meron lang talagang mga taong sadyang friendly, sweet, flirt, malandi, pa-fall o paasa.”

12. “Huwag magmadali sa babae o lalaki. Tatlo, lima, sampung taon, mag-iiba ang pamantayan mo at maiisip mong hindi pala tamang pumili ng kapareha dahil lang maganda o nakakalibog ito. Totoong mas mahalaga ang kalooban ng tao higit sa anuman. Sa paglipas ng panahon, maging ang mga crush ng bayan nagmumukha ding pandesal, maniwala ka.”

13. “Minsan kahit ikaw ang nakaschedule, kailangan mo pa rin maghintay, kasi hindi ikaw ang priority.”

14. “Mahirap pumapel sa buhay ng tao. Lalo na kung hindi ikaw ung bida sa script na pinili niya.”

15. “Alam mo ba kung gaano kalayo ang pagitan ng dalawang tao pag nagtalikuran na sila? Kailangan mong libutin ang buong mundo para lang makaharap ulit ang taong tinalikuran mo.”

16. “Mas mabuting mabigo sa paggawa ng isang bagay kesa magtagumpay sa paggawa ng wala.”

17. “Hindi lahat ng kaya mong intindihin ay katotohanan, at hindi lahat ng hindi mo kayang intindihin ay kasinungalingan. ”

18. “Kung nagmahal ka ng taong di dapat at nasaktan ka, huwag mong sisihin ang puso mo. Tumitibok lang yan para mag-supply ng dugo sa katawan mo. Ngayon, kung magaling ka sa anatomy at ang sisisihin mo naman ay ang hypothalamus mo na kumokontrol ng emotions mo, mali ka pa rin! Bakit? Utang na loob! Wag mong isisi sa body organs mo ang mga sama ng loob mo sa buhay! Tandaan mo: magiging masaya ka lang kung matututo kang tanggapin na hindi ang puso, utak, atay o bituka mo ang may kasalanan sa lahat ng nangyari sayo, kundi IKAW mismo!”

19. “Pakawalan mo ung mga bagay na nakakasakit sayo kahit na pinasasaya ka nito. Wag mong hintayin ang araw na sakit na lang ang nararamdaman mo at iniwan ka na ng kasiyahan mo.”

20. “Gamitin ang puso para alagaan ang mga taong malalapit sayo. Gamitin ang utak para alagaan ang sarili mo.”

21. “Ang pag-ibig parang imburnal…nakakata kot mahulog…at kapag nahulog ka, it’s either by accident or talagang tanga ka.

Nalaman kong hindi final exam ang passing rate ng buhay. Hindi ito multiple choice, identification, true or false, enumeration or fill-in-the- blanks na sinasagutan kundi essay na isinusulat araw-araw. Huhusgahan ito hindi base sa kung tama o mali ang sagot, kundi base sa kung may kabuluhan ang mga isinulat o wala. Allowed ang erasures.”

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it was sent again to me by my friend through email. gustong gusto na niya talaga ako makapag move on kasi  siya sumasalo sakin eh. baka mapagkamalan na siyang tomboy niyan hehe. thanks to her dahil di ako napapariwara:P She guides me when times na wala ako sa sarili at maligalig hehe! Iba talaga ang tunay na kaibigan. Hindi ka iiwan sa mga panahong kailangan mo na talaga ng tulong. The best!

Instructions

Moving On

  1. Step 1

Remember that time heals all wounds. Give yourself plenty of time to heal and recuperate. Put away pictures, gifts or any mementos that remind you of your ex. It is natural to experience feelings of denial, but do your best to resist the urge to call your ex and ask to get back together. Immediately after a break-up, you are at your most vulnerable state so be careful not to get into a rebound relationship that may prove to be a mistake. You can avoid some of the pitfalls such as drowning your sorrows away in alcohol by channeling all of your energy into positive activities that make you feel good about yourself.

  1. Step 2

Surround yourself with friends and loved ones. Talk about how you’re feeling and allow them to comfort you and offer you advice. A break up can be a very lonely experience, therefore, surrounding yourself with others that you love and trust will help to erase some of the loneliness. Don’t try to deal with the experience all by yourself. In fact, go out and meet new people, rebuild old relationships, network and immerse yourself into social situations. Keep yourself busy doing things you enjoy with the people you love, and don’t dwell on the past.

  1. Step 3

Go out and have fun. Don’t stay home and sulk as it will only make you feel more miserable. Round up a group of friends and hit the town. Do something fun and exciting like a night of dancing or bar hopping. Plan a weekend beach or camping trip or take a quick out of town getaway. Going out with friends will remind you that being single can be just as fun as being in a relationship. It will also help to keep your mind off of your ex.

  1. Step 4

Take some time off for yourself. If you can, take some time off work and get away from the world for a while. Use this time to reflect on your life and expectations for the future. Enjoy your time alone with relaxing activities like reading, taking long baths, watching your favorite movies or engaging in a favorite hobby or pasttime. Basically, take this time to do whatever makes you feel the most relaxed and calm. It is important to clear your mind of all negative feelings, and relaxing will help you to slowly let go of any lingering bitterness.

  1. Step 5

Start dating again. After you have given yourself adequate time to get over your last relationship, you should consider getting back into the dating game. Allow yourself to fall in love again and enjoy the start of a new relationship. Be careful to not rush things and take the time to really let your partner into your life. However, take care not to be consumed in this or any other relationship because you never know when another break-up may happen.

Tips & Warnings

  • Whatever you do, don’t let a break-up get you down. Remember that everyone experiences break-ups regardless of age, race, class or social status. Even celebrities go through bad break-ups, so don’t let the end of a relationship destroy your self-esteem.

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this was sent to me via email by my friend.  Naging guide na rin to sakin somehow. Share ko lang. It might help 🙂 Syempre depende parin sa tao ang pag move on:P Naniniwala parin ako sa quote na “Time Heals…

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You’ve lost someone who was very important to you and now you find yourself unable to move on. It’s time to get your life back!

Difficulty: Hard

Time Required: 45 minutes a day at first

Here’s How:

  1. You may feel really low and completely unmotivated right now, but if you can force yourself at first to take these steps, it will get easier!
  2. Give your friends a call and setup a time to do something fun.
  3. Do the things you used to enjoy but were not able to do when you were dating your ex.
  4. Throw yourself into the activities you’ve been thinking about getting involved in, but haven’t had time for.
  5. Let yourself be around your ex.
  6. If you feel like you want to get back together, repeat steps 1-5.
  7. If you’re comfortable being around your ex and don’t feel the need to slip back into your old relationship, congratulations! You have moved on with your life!

Tips:

  1. When a person is in a serious relationship, sometimes s/he may put less effort into maintaining friendships. This means you’re going to have to be the on to take the first step in repairing your friendships.
  2. Sometimes a person can identify his/herself by the relationship (ex: seeing yourself as ‘Ashely’s boyfriend’). This can be hard to deal with when the relationship is over and you’re left without an identity.
  3. Getting over someone is a tough, but you’ll learn a lot about yourself and the kind of relationship you want for the future.

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This is got to be the saddest day of my life
I call you here today for a bit of bad news
I wont be able to see you anymore
Because of my obligations and the ties that you have.

Weve being meeting here everyday
And since this is our last day together
I wanna hold you, just one more time.

When you turn and walk away
Dont look back
I wanna remember you, just like this
Lets just kiss and say goodbye.
—-
I have to meet you here today
Theres just so many things to say
Please dont stop me til Im through
This is something I hate to do.

Weve being meeting here so long
I guess what weve done, all was wrong
Please darling, dont you cry
Lets just kiss and say goodbye.

Many months have passed us by
(Im gonna miss you) Im gonna miss you, I cant lie
(Im gonna miss you) Ive got ties and so do you
I just think this is the thing to do.

Its gonna hurt me I cant lie
Maybe youll meet, youll meet another guy
Understand me, wont you try, try, try, try, try, try, try
Lets just kiss and say goodbye.

(Im gonna miss you) Im gonna miss you, I cant lie
(Im gonna miss you) Understand me, wont you try
(Im gonna miss you) Its gonna hurt me I cant lie.

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I like the song. Sa ngayon eto yung pinapakinggan ko, to make me feel much more better. malapit ng bumalik ang tunay na anneng 🙂 kunti na lang di na ko emo pramis 😛

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Did I say something stupid?
There goes one more mistake
Do I bore you wiht my problems?
Is that why you turn away?
Do you know how hard I tried
To become what you want me to be?

Take me
This is all that I’ve got
This is all that I’m not
All that I’ll ever be
I’ve got flaws, I’ve got faults
Keep searching for your perfect heart
It doesn’t matter who you are
We all have our scars
We all have our scars

You say don’t act like a child
But what if its a father I need?
Its not like you don’t know what you got yourself into
Dont tell me I’m the one whos nieve
Do you know how hard I’ve tried
To become who you want me to be?

Take me
This is all that I’ve got
This is all that I’m not
All that I’ll ever be
I’ve got flaws, I’ve got faults
Keep searching for your perfect heart
It doesn’t matter who you are
We all have our scars
We all have our scars

Come on, just let it go
These are things you can’t control
Your expectations, your explainations
Don’t make sense to me
You and your alternatives
Don’t send me to your therapists
Deep down, I know what you mean
And I’m not sure thats what I wanna be
No

Take me
This is all that I’ve got
This is all that I’m not
All that I’ll ever be
I’ve got flaws, I’ve got faults
Keep searching for your perfect heart
It doesn’t matter who you are
We all have our scars
We all have our scars
Oh no no no

Did I say something stupid
There goes one more mistake..

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A friend send me an email with an attachment of this song. She says it fitted me well. And I definitely agree hehe! I think I’m gonna make this my song for now 🙂

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I’m okay, I’m okay
don’t keep asking me I might disintegrate
what do you want? I’ve moved on
Everything is going well, at least that’s what I tell myself
I wish I was the tin man so I wouldn’t have a heart to break.

I’m okay, I’ll survive.
I only think about you half the time
All these tears, all these drops in the ocean baby
You barley even cross my mind no, no
and it doesn’t hurt that much
It was only a paper cut
It’s only a paper cut, a paper cut… yeah
I forget that it’s there
you keep calling and calling, you don’t care
how it burns, how it stings
just cause you can’t see it bleed
doesn’t mean it don’t go deep
I wish I was the tin man so I wouldn’t have a heart to break.
I’m okay, I’ll survive.
I only think about you half the time
All these tears, all these drops in the ocean baby
You barley even cross my mind (I’ll be just fine)
and it doesn’t hurt that much
It was only a paper cut
It’s only a paper cut, a paper cut
The more I give, the less I get
sometimes I wish that we’ve never met
cause I was fine ‘til you broke through
But don’t worry baby ill get over you…
By tomorrow or the next day, or they next day, or the next day

I’m okay, I’ll be fine.
I only think about you half the time
YEAHHH , Yeah, Yeahahhhhhh, Yeahhh
I’m okay, I’ll survive.
I only think about you half the time
All those tears, were just drops in the ocean baby
You barley even cross my mind no, no
boy you wish it hurt that much
It was only a paper cut
It’s only a paper cut, a paper cut, yeah… its only a paper cut, paper cut, yeah…
I’m okay, I’m okay

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I’m on the outside, looking in
What do I see?
So much of this left to begin
Where would I be?
Out on the outside, looking in
Cover me through this night

Guess I don’t know what’s, left to say
But hear me out
All of the dreams of, yesterday
Keep breaking me down
What’s on the outside, can you say
Or am I getting carried away

It’s in your mind
It’s in your eyes
So it’s goodbye again
It’s way past time
For one last try
So it’s goodbye again
Goodbye… again

I’m getting on, but what’s the use
You know how I get
I can’t decide which is the truth
At least not yet
I got the feeling, that it’s you
What can be said, alone in this room
No…

It’s in your mind
It’s in your eyes
So it’s goodbye again
It’s way past time
For one last try
So it’s goodbye again

Who wants you now?
Maybe somebody else
I’ll wait around
Maybe you’ll forget you were ever here
Maybe forget you were ever, never here

I’m on the outside, looking down
What do I see?
So much of this cold, in the ground
Where would i be?
I’m on the outside, looking down
Cover me before you go

It’s in your mind
It’s in your eyes
So it’s goodbye again
It’s way past time
For one last try
So it’s goodbye again

Your falling out,
I’m falling in
So it’s goodbye again
It’s way past time
For one last try
So it’s goodbye… again
So it’s goodbye again

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